Today's episode is something that I hope is the catalyst to changing your perspective in life. Everyone is always looking for answers when everything is constantly evolving. Changing your perspective to create a stable mental framework will help you deal with change much better. You're not stuck; you just haven't figured out the move to "unstick" you and building that sustainable framework will allow you to find it. As much as I'd love to assist you in your journey, you need to change your life yourself because no one is going to change it for you.

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People love to hang out with negative people love hanging out with each other. And and saying. Why everybody else is up my mom up our boss. Up.

The ceo billionaires up. Gen z. Up. The millennials like when did you up.

When did you up how many questions did you get i didn't count. But a lot what do you think 60. I love it i can't wait to this is like a fun new format. We're thinking about which is like things like that stressed me out have been stressed all day that we weren't gonna get to everybody.

And so so many people want the question and so now it's like even more fun right because at my live events. We'll record them i'm going to answer them all we may not post them all. But if you asked if they asked i'm going to find a way to answer them all you've worked to send to people 101 or put them on the askgaryvee team gary account or whatever we figured to out. But um really fun new innovation on dealing with the reality of the supply and demand of our new realities.

Um. And just a lot of like fun. People. People.

Flying in from romania. People flying in from you know like down the street. All walks of life all different scenarios. All different challenges all different opportunities.

All different levels of happiness. And hope optimism and delusion and that's just like the world right the world is just filled with so many different truths. And people's truths. Change.

Hour by hour. Day. By day people's truths. Have changed in line.

Today since v. Con. Right there many people i saw in minnesota in may that have a different reality right now in late july in seven weeks. Somebody got sick something popped off in a good way.

And so you know everyone's always looking for answers. When answers are always changing and evolving based on the questions and questions are coming up on a daily basis. So this is not about a tactical like here's the blueprint go do this this is about a perspective and a sustainable mental framework that allows you to deal with anything and everything and that is grounded in gratitude and that is grounded in practical optimism that is grounded tactically in underpriced attention and opportunities. That's why you're going to hear from me.

So much about facebook pages and youtube shorts. Now because the attention and where you need to put your energy your output your content your information your music your art your ideas your business development. Those will change um. But what everyone is in search of and in need of is a sustainable mental framework and and that is what i'm going to continue to work on which is like if you're able to see the world through the eyes of attacking hate with love through the eyes of tenacity and work.

Ethic are part of the formula thus find something you like otherwise you won't be able to work that hard you know if if you're able to figure that out if you are stuck in a nine to six bring even a nine to nine. Because you have two jobs in your situation such a challenge. Because you're feeding four people in your home as a single parent and you've got two jobs. You're nine to nine the question is can one of those because one of them's just extra cash instead of having a five to nine.
Where you're actively doing something can you get a five to nine for the same fifteen dollars. An hour at a store or be a receptionist or a night guard. Where you can work on your phone. While you actually do your job right.

It's like you know to me the ques. You know this concept of people saying well. I'm stuck is just actually not true. It's true because you think you're stuck the actual world god the world doesn't think you're stuck.

You just haven't figured out the move you have to make to unstuck you and unstick you and that's exactly what i just said in that little scenario right now. Which is like you're working five to nine. But like you're doing something that doesn't let you be on your phone. But you switch it and get paid the same amount and sit at a chair.

That's not bothered often security guard retail cash register. Where that's not a busy store. Uh. Front uh.

Secretary uh. You know um driving movers around and every time you're not driving like maybe. That's half and half. There i'm just spinning here free flow about you're not stuck.

You might have it much more challenging than others. That's why i go so crazy about 20 year olds. 20 year olds. So many of them don't have the handcuffs that's why i'm so passionate about 20 to 30.

I'm not less passionate about 50 to 90. It's just that 50 to 90 comes with baggage comes with being a little stuck children mortgages debt 20 to 30 comes with just opportunity and just got to get the out of the school system and parents traditional points of view. They have plenty of good points of view. This is not binary parents are the best parents are the worst school's the best school's worst.

I'm the best i'm the worst everything is both everybody just wants to be one thing. It's got to be all blue. It's got to be all red it's purple. It's always purple nothing's binary.

But what is binary is if you are pessimistic and you say you're stuck. Then it's over if you've decided it's over there ain't no video. I can make to make you on over or there is which is why i'm motivated to do it. The fact that one human being can say one thing at the right second to another human being that can fundamentally change.

The process of their life. Because they have now decided to open up a different perspective and see the world differently is the most intoxicating. Most powerful reason that human beings are the best in the world. And i will continue to be one small version of a human being one of many millions of people that are out there and i don't i don't know if i think it's billions.

But i definitely think it's tens of millions and i do believe it's hundreds of millions do i think it's 12 percent of people maybe not but but i definitely think there are tens to hundreds of millions of people who get deep happiness for themselves out of trying to be a communicator to help others some do it at the highest level of distribution. Like me others do it for their just their child thus making me change my mind. It is billions of people it is billions of people there's absolutely over a billion people on earth that are passionate to use their words to make somebody's life better. It's called parented and so what are we doing here like enough enough let this be the rant in the back of a car.
This time. What was supposed to be a two second recap of this fox signing in la let this little rant be the one that says he's right because if you say i'm wrong. Nobody's going to be able to help you you're going to be the only person that's able to help yourself. And if you think the people that are using fear and negativity to get your attention and you're saying.

They're right. They're just selling you darkness. And you're buying it and for some reason. You think that if you take that darkness.

And then you deploy hating somebody else a system a government a president hating. A gender a race a person that looks different than you that you're going to take your unhappiness you're going to repackage it because somebody got into your head. And you're going to use that as hate to tear down somebody else because you think that's going to be good for you you think that's going to be good for you you're losing out here partner you're losing out here my friend. If you're spending your time hating on others canceling people on the left hating on people on the right country to country religion to religion.

If you're watching this in the middle east in eastern europe in america. Trying to divide people even within your own family. You're mad at your brother. Because he's happy and successful that's on you he's not trying to make you feel bad.

He's just happy he can't help. But protect it he's happy and so what you're mad at him you want to tear him down you want to talk to your other siblings or your parents about him. Because he's happy this is an inside game. It's you versus you it's you with you it's only you and you and too many of you right now are succumbing to consuming darkness.

And that's your up so take on the accountability take on the accountability. And say it's my job to start being more optimistic and happier and i'm going to seek out humans and content that does that this is the first day that i'm going to go on the mental scale. Just like when you have to lose 30 pounds. You go into scale and be like okay.

I'm a buck 90. I got to get to 160 let this be the video let this be the second in your life. That you get on the mental scale. And say i'm too cynical.
I'm too scared. I'm frightened. I'm insecure. Which is why all this other bad shit's happening and i'm ready to do something about it and that first thing to do is to cut out the negativity in your life.

Cut the news. The out cut all the people on your social that are negative cut the people in your real life cut them down. You don't have to cancel and completely cut out your mom you just might be able to talk to her once a month for five minutes. Instead of three times a day for 15 and just have her talk negative nonsense to you you know that's the biggest issue that people people hear me they're like i can't cut.

My brother out i don't want you to i want you to cut down your brother limit your brother. If your brother is bringing negativity to you an hour at a time every single day that is seeping into your soul look around your homies negative people love to hang out with negative people negative people love to hang out with negative people you just sit in a circle on your text thread or in your at your coffee shop in the morning or after work at the bar. Or on the softball team or in the office. You just love hanging out with each other.

And saying. Why everybody else is up. Joe biden. Up donald trump.

Up my mom up. Our boss. Up. The co.

Up billionaires up. Gen z. Up. The millennials.

Like when did you up wouldn't you up you know what keeps me happy as i talk to myself more about what i up about than what i've accomplished and let me make it very clear to you i'm incredibly proud of how big one list is versus. The other and yet all my focus goes on to the accountability of what i suck at and that doesn't bring me down that makes me happy because i take on the accountability. I'm like what can i do about it how do i make it better what can i do about it can that be apologizing to somebody or can that be about changing my behavior often both negative people think they're tricking somebody with their negative words. I come across negative people every day of my life and i listen to all of their nonsense and they really think they're tricking me into thinking.

It was someone else. It's you if you can afford it therapy. If you can't afford it use the free therapy. That's on youtube and podcast.

Every day do something about it because one day you're gonna wake up and it's gonna all be over and you're gonna be dead forever. And you're going to regret. It it's time change your life. Because nobody else is going to change it for you there'll be people that come along that want to be the assist.

I'd love to be the assist. I'd love to be the assist boy would i love to be the assist. I'd love to bounce it right down the lane and have you dunk it. But i can't be the one that scores the points that needs to be you you.


12 thoughts on “A perspective shift in the back of a car in la”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Pavel Druto says:

    GareVee Words of Wisdom my Man!!!! 👌👌👌

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Andreas Dm says:

    The fact that you talk about cutting of mother and brothers its pathetic.That shit is needed only in america cause its the worst society on planet earth.

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Spring says:

    so true

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Edgar Hernandez says:

    The fact that today is a big part of my growth in life and seen this today I’ve been following you for about a year already but today this video hit different thank you Gary Vee.
    You Gary you are my therapist i got the layup from here.

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars YouAndImpact says:

    Great video 👍

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Sushi says:

    Literally one of the most important videos and only 10k… Wtf

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Stealthtrader says:

    When you let your Ego go then you can see hate and anger as hurt and fear, then you can turn being offended into an opportunity to show someone love. ❤

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Timothy Babcock says:

    What is there to be positive about? Everyday is the same. My health is getting worse, both physical and mental. I go to the gym all the time but I'm still fat. Stress is killing me. Therapy doesn't do shit. This world is and always will be Hell. People will kill you just as fast as look at you.

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jon Torrey says:

    This hits hard – I thought I was stuck 3 years ago. Started getting accountable and thought about what I could do to change my situation. Started garage saleing – ignored everyone who teased me about it. Learned business skills and made a good chunk of money. Used that money to trade sports cards, ignored everyone who teased me, and saved up about 1 year of expenses doing so. Started a business, just hit 7-figures, found a passion, love every day of it, and have grown so much. In the span of 3 years I – quit a job I hated, finally made the scary but important decision to move to a new state, started a business, launched a blog, freelance write for ONE37pm, and am much more positive, happy, and accountable 🙂

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jay Parmar says:

    Damn man look at those biceps 💪💪. My man getting bigger everyday. Always a pleasure to listen to you. You've always been a great assist. And don't worry, I'll dunk it in the flashiest way possible for you. Thank you so much brother for spreading positivity

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Tara Romanow says:

    💯👏👏👏🔥

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars The Dapper Disciple says:

    💯👊🏽

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