A lot of you are about to get “followers” and with that comes “hate” you need to respond with “love” and “compassion”

I'm on tick-tock came at me very very quickly, clearly from nothing to people knowing who i am yep and with. That is a lot of hate, and i was just wondering like from in school to comments like, what's the best way to deal with that think about how much it would suck to be in a place in your life, where you are so hurting inside that you Want to drag somebody else down compassion and empathy and everyone's like haters, you know like like delete it. I've actually only seen it one way from the first day in 2006 to now, i actually feel warmth towards the people that hate me, the most i mean it. I've been taking hate for a decade if somebody at school or in the comments, is taking the time to watch your videos and tell you that you're ugly, you suck you're stupid they're in a very bad place.


14 thoughts on “How to deal with the pressure of fame l with charli d’amelio in nov ’19”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars VSGLife says:

    I appreciate Gary V, but what do we do with that compassion and empathy? do we try to help or we just feel compassion and empathy? Oh sincerely feel like that’s not enough if you have been blessed to be in a position where you can help people I think that you should. I know I do now, and I’m not even rich yet.🤦🏽‍♀️

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Cuteek says:

    Thanks for this Gary. 👏🏼 I’ve been getting a lot of hate lately, especially since one of my videos went viral with 1.8 million views. All I want to do is just be me, stream and have fun with my dogs.

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars TC says:

    This proves that anybody can make it one day, even the kid you bully

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars tattoodrdoke says:

    Basically when you reframe the narrative with compassion you end up sleeping well. It's like when the parents of a child killed forgive the killer. It allows them to at peace with themselves and not be destroyed with inner turmoil. Personal I sit in the their not gonna live rent free in my head type of guy. I have learnt life is too short to waste time and energy on someone who wishes you ill will.

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Marketing Harry says:

    Nothing but the truth! All haters are in a really bad place.

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars hello12229 says:

    Or maybe “haters” criticism is founded based on when the talent’s platform is lip synching to 10 sec. tiktok clips and the commercial milking into an inorganic viral success.

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Scott Davidson says:

    Compassion + empathy, got it. Should folks respond by killing the "haters" with kindness or not respond at all?
    TIA and keep up the great work!

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Top Ten says:

    This girl gets an unreal amount of hate because she’s basically the biggest person on TikTok. I remember people criticizing her and calling her awful because she took a vacation in 2020

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Adrian Walker says:

    I could not imagine just living my life the way It is now to it blowing up so fast as hers and having that many eyes on me. I would not want to be in that position personally.

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Matthew Ao says:

    This is the only response to haters that actually resonates with me

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars SherlockTerps says:

    I love that I seen this happen first hand on Twitter with you dealing with Farid on Twitter and he came back with a heartwarming video

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars DaveDxy says:

    Nah Gary, you dont get it, just like other subjects of our generation – not yours.

    Prime reason for hate is jealousy simply because of an injustice world. These girls have better futures than actual working class people while they have little to 0 addition to this world. 14 year olds getting supported for shaking their cheeks while 6 person families cant eat because theyre being fired for not taking a jab. All this ‘fuck the haters I love em’ bullshit should make you start thinking about how to use your platform for the better of people, not just for your entrepreneur friends. Coming from a fan.

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Checkmate Flips says:

    This is so powerful because she has such a large following on TikTok. As a smaller creator I can take this and have empathy for those who are in a bad enough spot to try to put me and my work down.

    We've all, unfortunately, been in a space where we feel bad and so we hurt others. We can have compassion on the pain we were feeling then and translate that compassion to be towards others.

  14. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars ChoppedByT Podcast says:

    Great perspective of how to look at it. Have some compassion for people

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