The mentality on "earning trust" is something I think a lot of society has backwards. Many think that making people "earn" their trust will protect them in some way .. I think this is just an indication of their own fear or insecurity. The world doesn't need more doubt and skepticism .. we need more trust!!
You have a hundred percent of my trust until you don't same I Don't think enough of us are looking at the world that way. right now. We agree your distrust and major disbelief and you come in with me, bro. until you earn it.
What the are you? Why are you so audacious? Who the made you special enough that another human has to earn it? Where's your humility I Say yes I Give trust at first you can lose it. People like trust is earned I'm like cool that seems slow and egotistical. like who the Am I To have it earned. To me, trust is given and then you lose it if you're a dick face, incapable and have proven that you're not worthy of the challenge or the role.
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I respectfully disagree because I will leave my kids with someone I trust, not a stranger ps. This is the only time I disagree with mr.V
Like a teacher, I start everyone at a 100. However, not everyone keeps a 100. Sometimes, the grade drops a bit, but makes a comeback. Sometimes, people flunk out.
Given and then earned next time if you break the trust.
Everyone should really see this one.
I grew up trusting everyone until they lost it, now I gotta check everybody. Was super nice to everyone and no one wanted to let me smoke weed for the 1st time with them except for one guy, who came back to my house 2 weeks later, broke in & took mad stuff. So trust was given & then lost & now everybody gotta earn it. You can say things like this but it really shows innocence or that they've never caused their own property to be violated by trusting the wrong person too early
It's easy to sit on a screen and say that. But let's see how much MM trusts you if you wonder onto his front lawn.
This is all noise
I stand by you.
Amen. Thank you God
So true. Trust is earned through your achievements. Not because you are human.
I disagree, I believe that trust is indeed earned, now respect I give to all for free because I’m not gonna treat anyone like trash after seeing them once or based on any disrespect I may have received in the past from a different person. But trust is sacred to me it means I’ve allowed another into a space reserved for people who show up for me and who I show up for daily and unconditionally. Everyone can’t handle/reciprocate that level of trust so nope you gotta earn it with me. 🔥❤️
My Dad told me that if someone doesn't trust you then they aren't trustworthy. miss you Daddy.
it depends on the situtation. trust can be given more easily in low risk situations where not a lot of capital is on the line. same goes on the emotional front, if it's hard for you to be happy and grateful, especially if you do not have the monetary means to help, it's not a good idea to trust too often then have that messed up trust break you for weeks or months on end.
Agree to disagree! Speaking from a trauma based perspective, it's way too simplistic to say trust should be a given, from the get-go. Well, it so happens that many people can't have that privilege, attitude, and mindset. Lucky are those who can 😉
This is great y’all! 🏆
The mentality on "earning trust" is something I think a lot of society has backwards. Many think that making people "earn" their trust will protect them in some way .. I think this is just an indication of their own fear or insecurity. The world doesn't need more doubt and skepticism .. we need more trust!!