Being the bigger person in every situation, every time, always, is the ultimate leverage and the zone you should dream to be in. "Getting revenge" on people who've hurt me doesn't even cross my mind because it's completely impractical and a waste of time! Tune them out.. or better yet, feel empathy for the fact that they're in such a dark place they think hurting others is the answer
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The best revenge is to not be like them. My version on Revenge is a little bit more like the inability to even care about their action. To shrug it off. okay, not only shrug it off, it's almost as if it didn't happen.

It like goes on this nice little shelf. I'm like that's nice. You can play with yourself in that Cocoon of like whatever you feel about me, you've now become a energy that is just like, not a good use of time. That's how I've dealt with like people that have done really not nice things.

And to be frank, I've evolved a little bit from that deploying really deep sympathy. The thought at this point in my life that you want to spend any of your time hurting somebody else's feelings seems outrageously foreign and really just makes me feel compassionate.

13 thoughts on “This is the best revenge”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Dewa Debadon says:

    💚

    Daily Positivity Energy! Thanks Gary!

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Limbert Carrillo says:

    My kids and I think this is hilarious what you said this is how I think about people that try to harm me or hurt my feelings 😂😂❤❤❤❤

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars UntoldKyle says:

    Amen

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Michelle Anthony says:

    My last words to my ex: I don't wish you ill, I don't wish you well, I just never want to talk to you again.

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jennifer L says:

    Essentially – living well is the best revenge 👏 Agree 💯

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Carla Mar says:

    Gary is an evolved Scorpio, for sure! 👏

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jacob E says:

    Gary spits that wise sh*t, he’s been through that evidently and of course there isn’t any use for negativity so we do have to shelf that energy. Compassion for those that show up with hate is honestly so underrated and to be honest I’m not even at that level yet.

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Dan Twire says:

    I try to explain this way of thinking to people but it’s so hard for some to understand that nobody but you can’t tell you who you are

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Nour Ghafarji says:

    I needed to hear this so fuckin BAD you can't imagine! Thanks Gary!

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Do it says:

    Beta

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars AlexandCrypto says:

    Best mindset for haters! 👐

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars jb says:

    Revisited Nobody Gives a F*** exercise today. My attitude towards one specific person has changed dramatically. Last times done this exercise had overcome a lot. Letting go and reflecting differently is not excusing what done, though has to happen to move forward. Everyone starts out innocent and things happen that make people like that. Felt like have approached the closest to closure on this. Deep. Sympathy, that’s another level. Did feel sad about it earlier, though full on sympathy, that’s probably not so tough to accomplish as initially thought, if try enough, sure, why not

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars GaryVee says:

    Being the bigger person in every situation, every time, always, is the ultimate leverage and the zone you should dream to be in. "Getting revenge" on people who've hurt me doesn't even cross my mind because it's completely impractical and a waste of time! Tune them out.. or better yet, feel empathy for the fact that they're in such a dark place they think hurting others is the answer

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